Hey folks,

Am back as always, love 💑 love 💑, it’s in the air, it’s in movies, it’s in the youths, teenagers, every body wants to fall in love and be loved ❤❤❤. It’s a human thing, but no matter how some folks try, it seems they can’t reach out to love, it seems to be running away from them with all it’s goodies let explore about this phenomenon, shall we?

Firstly let me establish that what you are probably thinking is not really a credential in finding love, Truelove.

“Am I too fat? Am I ugly? Am I dark, fair or too pretty 😂😂 no matter who or what you think of your self if true love knocks at your door, it doesn’t looks for those things sadly, yes true love exist, I like to call it perfect 💯 love, totally attainable (between a male and a female ).

Being single is not a curse, actually it a time to have fun, get to know yourself better, it’s like a relationship with your self. Use that time to explore in the right way, do good be good.

So why can’t you find love?

#You are not ready _Am not talking about age difference here, you can be 55 and not be ready for love, ouch that hurts. There’s no way you can truly love someone without loving yourself, learn to love yourself, go out, live have fun be happy. The secret of love is when you least expect it, it comes knocking at your door 😉.

# You think you figured love out_This is sad, most people have the kind of partner they want idolized in their minds, am not taking about character, am talking about heights, complexion and and stuffs like that, that shows you are not ready, and you will keep falling into the hands of wrong men, tragic.

#You still hung up on past failures _You keep blaring about how men are, how women are.

Who broke your heart, who did this and that!! All this shows you are not ready yet. Let go of the past and look on the bright side 😉. Forget all the heart 💔 breaks and move on, really move on…. Open your heart, You will love again.

Well this article isn’t about finding love, it’s why you cant find it.

*Don’t be picky.

*Be happy being single

*Work on your self…

And who knows Mr. Love will come knocking on the door of your heart and who knows it may be me. 😉

Until next time,your friend,

REA. 👋

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